Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Douchebag or Not?

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18 comments:

SLA said...

He's not a douchebag. He's more of a turd sandwich. That was the most arrogant 'what planet are you from' desperate thing I've ever heard (but funny). Most of the time if a woman gives you the wrong number/the real number but never answers is because if she doesn't want you to sweat her for the REST of the night. Not saying it's true for all men, but it happens a lot more than we care to deal with. So the easiest, most time efficient way to blow a person off and be able to enjoy the rest of your shopping day or outing is to just give them what they're asking for so they'll push on and stop following you through the mall/club/church/work/grocery store/gym/park/concert. If you call her and she doesn't call back..unless she's dead by now there's probably a reason why. His feelings/pride was hurt and he should've left well enough alone! LOL

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TIKJ9O8Rsl4&eurl=http://video.google.com/videosearch?hl=en&q=turd+sandwich&oe=UTF-8&um=1&ie=UTF-8&sa=N&tab=wv&o

DFW Dad said...

He sounds like a loser to me. I think has happen to him a lot and he's bitter.

Shae said...

I agree with SLA. If she didn't respond the first time, you ella LAME for calling her a second time. If you not a bill collector you have no reason to call again, if I don't respond that should be a BIG ACE HINT that I'm not interested. If I'm injured, hurt, etc. and couldn't call back in an appropriate amount of time and I am interested, please believe I'll respond to you once I recover.

The Kaptivator said...

I do agree with Shana that he was a bit of a Turd sandwich, but I disagree with your assumption that a dude will follow you around or sweat you if you don’t give him the number! Most sane folks leave well enough alone, but giving out numbers for the heck of it is Lame…So I guess the guy is lame for using the number you gave him? And if he calls back after you purposely missed the call, then he’s a douchbag? I don’t agree! Now if he continues to call after that second no answer and he can’t take the hint or he totally misses the hints, then yes I agree, he would be considered a douchbag, turd blossom, or whatever suits him best! But the guy is no physhic…I don’t think he’s wrong for using the number…he was wrong to leave those long-drawn out messages analyzing her mind state when he’s never spoken to her. He Sounded Bitter!! But he didn’t sound like a bug-a-boo!

Krazy Legs said...

This chick's name is Olga! She need to give him a call off GP!!!

SLA said...

$10 says dude is a registered sex offender!!!!

Chuck Dollar$ said...

Dude was an arrogant ahole and she probably got that vibe when he first tried to holla...

But giving the fake number is some BS, in some situations (not talking from experience!) I think a regular non-stalker type of guy would appreciate a straight forward "NO", rather then getting hopes up and a complete let-down.

But he sounds like he's been in counseling and repeating what he's learned about himself.....LoL

Shae said...

Well being a female, sometimes the straight up "NO, I'm not interested" doesn't work. Then it becomes a, so why you here, what you looking for, what is it about me that you don't like, etc. Ish erks the phuck out of me.

And there have been cases, where I have been interested, until conversation and all interests went out the window. You politely, say "you're cool when they say; let's meet up for lunch, movie, dinner, etc. And they just can't seem to loose your number.

I for one have had to start putting DO NOT ANSWER in as names for some guys because they wouldn't stop calling. Even after me answering on some occasions and being ella rude because you're disturbing me.

The Kaptivator said...

C$'s is absolutely correct about the counseling thing!LMAO!!!

Cute girls only have yalls problems with guys sweating you and I understand that is a nusiance...but ugly girls would love for a nice guy to give them a call! Yall should just be real and stop worrying about whether or not dude is a physcho. After a lil thought I think I would rather have a wrong number than a no answer! B/c when they don't answer once it's kool, twice..hint hint..three times..you're lame for continuing to call! But the guy is not wrong for wanting to me you after he approached and you extended the friendly number! And NO he doesn't want to be your friend! LOLOL He wants to holler and that's understandable! But yall ladies have gotten beside yourselves lately! There was a time when a nice young lady appreciated a nice young man...now-a-days everybody is sweating yall! Geesh! Why don't yall switch just roles and start doing all the barkin when you see something you want....let the men walk around like ladies with that uncomfortable "panties in a knot" attitude....

Shae said...

Uhm... who said we don't approach when we see something we like. I have never had a problem approaching a man, in the proper environment to let him know I was feeling him.

Did it in college and it got me a PSYCHO, but hey I loved that fool for the time being. LOL.

But if a woman wants something, please believe if she wants it bad enough she'll approach and present him with some options. Sometimes ya'll get that "I'M THE ISH" attitude about yourselves and we have to bring you back to REALITY.

I have never been unapproachable. Unless you just came at me totally wrong. As I have stated before, my name is not HEY SHAWTY, YO SLIM, HEY BOO, EXCUSE TALL DARK AND LOVELY, etc. If you can't approach with common sense, you get that DOO DOO look and that should tell you everything I'm going to say before you ask.

What irritates me, is when a young man ask for my number and I give it to him only to find out that he's all ready in a committed relationship. If you got baggage, don't APPROACH ME. That ish is lethal now, people get killed over ish they didn't even know. That's why I made it a PRIORITY TO ASK, do you have a baby mama, girlfriend, crazy ex-girlfriend, cut buddy, etc. because I need to know what I'm getting into and if I want to subject myself to such ignorance. You don't make that decision for me!

So riddle me this men, why is it that a man can hook up with three or four women at the same workplace, be living with his girlfriend and still think he's in the right and you've done him wrong with his ISH IS EXPOSED.... LOL.

SLA said...

Yeah. There's nothing wrong with women hollering at a nice little piece of man meat when she see's it. I'm all for it! I feel you Kaptivator on being real, but these days sometimes rejection can get your head blown off. Even you if a guy asks you if you have a man, and you respond yes...they will still turn around and ask "what your man got to do with me?" So why in the hell did you ask me if you dont care! LOL. I found it much easier to give the wrong number or the right one and just dont answer. The real psychos will call you RIGHT THEN to make sure it's the right number. A simple way to avoid that whole situation is to not take numbers at the club, or wait until she offers it to you...then you know for sure that she wants you to have it! Or how about this fellas, if she looks unapproachable, she might not want to be approached...so dont approach her!!! LOL.

Krazy Legs said...

to Shae's latest reply...let the fireworks begin...WOW!

Krazy Legs said...

to sla:

"Or how about this fellas, if she looks unapproachable, she might not want to be approached...so dont approach her!!! LOL."

Where's the fun in that?

SLA said...

It could be fun to watch, if she's psycho and commences to macing his eyes up!

Shae = officially off the chain! But I can't wait to h ear the responses!!!! LOL

Shae said...

As you can see SLA, all you hear are CRICKETS. Even Krazy Legs skipped over the question posed to the men....

Krazy Legs said...

I guess it's only wrong if there's no understanding in place between both parties.

All that goes out the window if something other than "me and you are just buddies or friends or etc."

DFW Dad said...

There's no good response because it's wrong. But hey, females do their dirt also. They are just better at hiding it.

Shae said...

I agree, some females (not all) do dirt, but I bet if you ask the proper questions she would feel obligated to tell you the truth. Most men don't ask, because they doing the same thing or they not interested in a committed relationship.

That question was being posed b/c I don't quite understand some people. Like what would make you possibly think you could get away with messing around with 4 different people that work at the same company WITH YOU! And why would you think it would even make sense to say you are single, when you live with your GIRLFRIEND whom you consider EX-GIRLFRIEND. Exs don't share homes, that's just common sense. But I'm still mind blown over question 1. Who in their right phucking would think that it was okay and that they wouldn't have a HIGH SCHOOL MOMENT at their job when all parties involved found out the truth.

But you live, learn and grow. It's just sad that some women don't grow and then move on to mess up their happy homes over some BS. This would be a perfect Boondock's episode, I need to contact ole boy and see how much he'll pay for the story.