So you got three (one , two , three )kids and NOW....... you wanna cut-off the snatch ...instead of making his black snake moan.....He should get nakkid....rape himself and skeet in his hand and slap the juice on her back ...jump off the bed and proclaim ...."it could be in ya...but now it's just on ya"
Dear Ernestine,I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. He is a beautiful black, educated man with a good job. He is a good father figure to my 3 kids. So what's my problem? I want to get married! I'm a Christian and he is not. Recently, I decided that in order for me to stay committed to my faith, I should stop having sex out of wedlock. When I told my boyfriend this, he got mad. He said that the church is brainwashing me and that I had to make a decision; the church or him. I love him and I love my church. How can I make a choice? Now what should I do?
This seems to be a growing trend in Christianity. Many women feel that in order to be close to God or even accepted by Him, we must refrain from sex out of wedlock. Some even feel a false sense of "purity". We have even seen it in all of the gospel movies that have recently come out. The nice girl who has found God and decided not to let her body be defiled with meaningless sex. It is almost like the world is telling unmarried Christian woman that they cannot be the good girl if they are still having sex out of wedlock. The term given to this trend is "born again virginity". The reality is that no matter how long you refrain from sex, you will never be a virgin again. I’m not trashing this life choice; I just think it should be kept in context. And we also need to keep in mind that this choice is not for everyone. Before you can make a decision, you need to ask yourself if refraining from sex is an act of sacrifice for God or a tool to get your man to marry you. This is an important question. Any sacrifice that we give to God must be from our hearts or He will not accept it. Did you come to this revelation on your own or did you get some help from other single women in your church? Sex is not the only sin in this human world! When the people asked Jesus about celibacy, He simply said that it was an individual choice, not a commandment of God. God’s commandment is against adultery. The word adultery means "a voluntary sexual act between a married person and a partner other than the married person’s spouse." Since you and your boyfriend are not married (he ain't married is he?) then you are not breaking one of God’s commandments. My advice to you is that you need to determine the motive of your "sacrifice". If you strongly believe that refraining from sex is what God is requiring of you, then your choice is simple. Choose God. A true Christian will always seek the favor of God over the favor of man. Just be sure that your conviction came from God and not man! Wo-man either! FYI: there are a lot of women who would love to have a black, educated and employed-single man! Most of these women go to church! http://www.mahoganybutterfly.com/cms...?articleid=232
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LMAO @ "born-again virgin
Why is she stressing getting married in the legal sense, because if the truth be told, if they been living together long enough to have three children together, they are MARRIED! Atleast most courts see it that way.
I think this born again virgin stuff is a joke as well, because too many people want to reinvent themselves. Same thing O's did when they went off to college, they were the set out girls in high school, but in college, they were the puriest of the pure.
If she feel she needs to stop having sex, she should also, stop shacking, because that's not so "holy" either. If her home is fine and the only thing lacking is a piece of paper from the legal system saying they married, she should start investigating her common-law marriage laws and find out if they aren't already considered married.
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